Raising Apathetic Children
Monday, June 15th, 2009
Picture this: After an early, hard-working morning, I am sitting poolside after lunch with my laptop computer doing work. The rain and thunderstorms that have been virtually non-stop the last month in Philly have finally taken a break and the sun is out. It’s a gorgeous, relaxing day. Nothing could interrupt, right?
Wrong. I am jolted back to reality when I hear the thud of a flip-flop smacking against the concrete. A little boy is going to town smashing what I can only assume was once a bug. Then I hear his mother, “Did you get it? Good job! You’re so good at that! Is it definitely dead?”
I find that when I am handing out veg pamphlets on the street (a.k.a. leafleting), kids are very receptive when I say, “info on helping animals” while handing their parents a pamphlet. More often than not, regardless of how the adult responds, the child says, “I want to help animals!” Usually it seems that kids have a strong sense of respect for all living things (when do we lose this, by the way?), but that didn’t help me feel any less sad that this mother was clearly raising an apathetic son with little or no respect for life.
In other news … the 18-year-old serial cat killer, Tyler Hayes Weinman, was charged for a string of cat killings and mutilations in the Miami area. Hmm … bet he was a bug squisher as a kid.
Want to parent your kids in a way that helps them understand respect for others? I highly recommend keeping up with Wired for Noise, the blog of Summer, a mother of three or at least read her recent post “Attachment Parenting, Feminism, and Raising Sons”.




I spent my entire day today at the 

Lawmakers are really making positive strides lately for animals (usually thanks to an animal rights groups shaking the ground beneath them, but progress is progress).











